tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828112512256830354.post3192300964335613681..comments2023-07-12T05:15:20.997-06:00Comments on Broke in Mexico: There is a situation that I do not know what to do about it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07094398763672345801noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828112512256830354.post-59244609636447981232012-03-26T15:58:37.681-06:002012-03-26T15:58:37.681-06:00Totally agree with the first commentor! This is s...Totally agree with the first commentor! This is such a horrible situation for that girl to be in. And, it sounds like she is too scared to ever speak up.<br /><br />You need to be tricky. And, lie if need be to take her there. I hope the best outcome for this. Please keep us informed.<br /><br />So glad that you are the kind of person that won't just sit back and watch it all go down. Hopefully, with your help, you will get to the bottom of this.<br /><br />Good luck!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08088917360196219334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828112512256830354.post-19701365664453407382012-03-26T14:08:22.390-06:002012-03-26T14:08:22.390-06:00So, how do I take her to the IMSS? This was my fir...So, how do I take her to the IMSS? This was my first thought but, his sister will not let her out of her site now. After this happened, I wanted to take her with me to the store and she woudn't let me. <br />I am thinking about talking to one of his other sisters and getting her to help me with this becuase she would be able to get her to take her to the IMSS or to let her, she seems to listen to her better. I just know I agree completey with you no offense taken. I have a niece who went throught his and thanks to therapy she got through it. I also, have a friend whose niece killed herself because her mom didn't believe that her husband was raping her daughter everyday.<br />I am going to do something because, I can't ive with myself knowing this baby needs someone to help her.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07094398763672345801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828112512256830354.post-11137644700445575512012-03-26T13:52:26.474-06:002012-03-26T13:52:26.474-06:00Agree with the previous comment, please get her so...Agree with the previous comment, please get her some help :(Irmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04781054224350440379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828112512256830354.post-17942264362479489672012-03-26T13:13:29.952-06:002012-03-26T13:13:29.952-06:00Hi Stephanie, I read your blog since I lived in Me...Hi Stephanie, I read your blog since I lived in Mexico too, but I've never commented before. Today I needed to. <br /><br />I'm sorry if this comes across as harsh, but as someone with personal knowledge about how utterly devastating and damaging child sexual abuse is, you must protect this little girl. If nobody else will, you must. Even if it causes friction with your in-laws. Hell, you have problems with them anyway, so what's one more issue if it means saving this girl from a nightmare? What would you want someone to do if it was your child?<br /><br />Take her to IMSS if nobody else will. You have good intentions with getting her therapy, but right now the priority is stopping the abuse in its tracks. Your in-laws won't kick you out. Family is everything in Mexico, and you have the upper hand in that abandoning you and your kids would reflect badly on them, not to mention you can get them in trouble for not taking care of the poor girl.<br /><br />It is vital that Miguel is 100% in agreement with this plan, because he is their blood and you both will be stronger as a united front. Any man who wouldn't step in to protect his own family, an innocent child, is no kind of man and certainly not worthy of being your children's father. However, from what you write about him, I believe he will do the right thing. Remember: if you don't act now, this could be your child one day, and you would never forgive yourself. <br /><br />One more thing - abuse isn't something that just happens at night, when nobody is around. She might well have been abused when everybody was around. It doesn't take long and with so many people, it is easy for someone to disappear unnoticed for a few minutes. Or if the abuse happened during the time when she was alone with the nephew, it doesn't mean it was him! You don't know if it was a relative, a neighbour or a family friend who might have been there too. <br /><br />Good luck and please let us know how you went with the trip to IMSS.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com